From Ally to Enemy Of The LBTQ+ Reseller Community: The Toxic Influence of BreezyVonBreezy in the Reseller World

Breanne Fabian, better known as the owner of the alias BreezyVonBreezy (BreezyVonBreezy LLC) has made a name for herself in the reseller community.

But her claims of being an LGBTQ+ ally don’t seem to align with her actions.

There’s a troubling history of targeted harassment, especially against men—many of whom are gay and influential in the online selling space.

This article aims to shed light on behavior that, in my opinion, raises serious questions about her true intentions.

The story takes us back to the early 2010s at PoshFest, a significant event for the Poshmark community where resellers gather to network and learn.

It was during this time that BreezyVonBreezy, also known as Breanne Fabian, began to gain attention—but not for the right reasons. Instead of building her reputation through positive contributions or supporting her peers, she chose a different path.

BreezyVonBreezy exploited a rumor about a gay couple within the community, turning what should have been a non-issue into a spectacle.

At the time, she spewed her hatred for gay men onto a very public, very large platform called Instagram.

Rather than showing empathy or simply refraining from involvement, she seized the opportunity to use her platform to amplify and distort the rumor, dragging the couple into an unwarranted public spectacle.

Her goal seemed clear: to create drama and attract more followers (which she, I'm sure would agree with).

But, when the couple had the courage to defend themselves, Brianne did not back down.

Instead, she escalated the situation with a vicious attack, making vile and false claims about their private lives, including their most personal areas.

She also resorted to body shaming, and referring to their genitals in the most horrendous language.

Despite witnesses at the event swiftly debunking her accusations, the damage was already done.

The couple was humiliated, and BreezyVonBreezy had successfully drawn attention to herself—albeit for all the wrong reasons. "I've had to eventually block her on Instagram because I couldn't wake up every day to see the toxicity she was creating in this wonderful community, it was repulsive"

- Former follower

This incident was a troubling foreshadowing of the toxic behavior she would continue to display, as she prioritized growing her Instagram following over the well-being of others in the community.

This marked the beginning of a pattern: exploiting others and creating controversy to build her brand, all while disregarding the harm she caused.

It’s a pattern that raises serious concerns about her true motives and the kind of influence she has on the reseller community, and raises the question if we would even want something like this in the community at all?

A Disturbing Pattern of Targeting Men

As the years passed, a troubling pattern began to emerge in BreezyVonBreezy’s behavior—a pattern that consistently targeted male online sellers.

What initially might have seemed like occasional criticism quickly revealed itself to be something far more insidious.

Her actions went well beyond the bounds of constructive critique; they entered the realm of outright demeaning and degrading attacks.

This wasn’t just about disagreeing with or criticizing someone’s business practices—this was personal, and it was ugly, and no one knew why.

But then, we figured it out! She is a misandrist, but she particularly amplifies her hatred or GAY men. We are unsure why exactly. Perhaps it's because she feels they are weaker, more vulnerable, and that's when a sort of narcissistic homophobia takes over and feeds her desire to satiate her hunger for humiliation and degradation.

The LBTQ+ community has had ENOUGH hate, enough shame, enough attacks. From someone who claimed to be an ally, in our opinion (and through the years we have seen this), BreezyVonBreezy exhibits the opposite.

Biting The Hand That Feeds

Even Manish Chandra, the CEO of Poshmark and a respected figure in the industry, found himself in BreezyVonBreezy’s crosshairs.

Instead of addressing him with the professionalism one might expect from a prominent voice in the reseller community, she chose to attack him in the most inappropriate and disgusting way possible.

BreezyVonBreezy publicly made degrading comments about his private parts, dragging the discourse to a shockingly low level.

These remarks were not only unnecessary and completely unprofessional, but they also served no purpose other than to humiliate and harm.

This behavior wasn’t an isolated incident; it was part of a broader pattern.

BreezyVonBreezy repeatedly used her platform to tear down male sellers, resorting to deeply personal and offensive attacks rather than engaging in meaningful dialogue or critique.

What’s more, her actions suggest a clear bias—one that appears rooted in a willingness to target men, especially those who hold influence in the online selling space.

Whether it was driven by a desire for attention, control, or simply a need to belittle others, the result was the same: a relentless campaign of public shaming that did more to tarnish her own credibility than to contribute positively to the community.

This ongoing behavior raises serious questions about BreezyVonBreezy’s intentions and the ethics behind her actions. Rather than building up the reseller community, she has consistently chosen to tear others down, using degradation and humiliation as tools to further her own agenda.

The impact of these actions is far-reaching, and it paints a very different picture of someone who claims to be a leader and ally within the community.

The reseller community, which prides itself on diversity, inclusivity, and mutual respect, deserves better.

A true ally works to uplift and protect those they claim to support, but BreezyVonBreezy has repeatedly shown that she is more interested in tearing people down than in fostering a positive and inclusive environment.

Her behavior not only contradicts the values she professes but also harms the very people she claims to stand with.

Targeting Sellers In The luxury Space

A Continued Campaign of Degradation

As we fast forward to 2024, it’s clear that BreezyVonBreezy’s behavior has not only persisted but escalated.

The passage of time has done nothing to temper her attacks; if anything, it has emboldened her. She is now paid for making such degrading content on Patreon, a platform for creators and influencers -- with a subscription model that ensures creators are paid monthly.

You can purchase a subscription, and that will unlock their "tea" -- which is supposed to be private. But plenty of people talk and it gets out in one way or another!

The most recent target of her vitriol is a prominent online luxury seller who also happens to be gay.

Instead of offering support or celebrating diversity within the community, BreezyVonBreezy once again reverted to her familiar and deeply offensive tactics.

In this instance, she targeted him with the same degrading language she has used in the past—focusing on his private parts, his means of living & body shaming in a manner that was as crude as it was unnecessary.

The pattern is clear: she repeatedly singles out gay men, using derogatory and personal attacks that serve no purpose other than to belittle and humiliate. This behavior is not just offensive; it’s harmful, particularly when it comes from someone who claims to be an ally to the LGBTQ+ community.

What makes these actions even more troubling is the consistency with which she employs them.

This isn’t a one-time lapse in judgment; it’s a calculated strategy that BreezyVonBreezy has used time and again to tear others down. Her words and actions are not the behavior of someone who seeks to support and uplift marginalized voices.

Instead, they reflect a disturbing pattern of using hate as a means to build and maintain her platform.

For those who have followed her over the years, the contradiction between her claims of allyship and her actual behavior is impossible to ignore.

By continuing to degrade and demean gay men, Christians, and CEO's of prominent companies she has revealed a troubling agenda—one that appears to prioritize her own gain over the well-being and dignity of others.

In a community that values inclusivity and respect, such actions are not only unacceptable but also damaging to the very fabric of what it means to be an ally.

It’s time for the reseller community to take a closer look at the actions behind the rhetoric.

The true measure of allyship is not in words alone but in consistent, respectful behavior that uplifts others.

Unfortunately, BreezyVonBreezy’s ongoing campaign of degradation does nothing to support these values.

Instead, it serves as a reminder that actions speak louder than words, and her actions, time and again, have shown a clear disregard for the principles of true allyship In closing...

For those who genuinely value allyship and integrity, it’s worth reconsidering the support given to someone whose actions have shown a persistent disregard for these values. The reseller community deserves leaders who build others up, not those who thrive on tearing them down.

Final Disclaimer:

This article reflects the opinions of the author, informed by publicly available information and personal observations. It is intended to promote critical thinking and discussion within the reseller community. Reseller Refresher is not associated nor being paid by Poshmark, Poshfest or any seller mentioned here. All images are public domain.